Because It's YOUR Life™
Total Life Planning Institute
Life Coaching & Planning

Life Coaching and Planning in Hawaii

Tlp Institute

Life Coaching and Maui Retreats

 


You only live once-but
if you work it right,
once is enough
Joe E. Lewis

Listening to your heart
is not simple. Finding
out who you are is not simple. It takes a lot of hard work and courage to get to know who you are and what you want Sue Bender

Often people attempt
to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so they will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you really want. Margaret Young


Module # 1 - Authenticity - Introduction

Most people live their lives never finding their authentic self. They never find the person they were meant to be, nor do they develop themselves to their greatest potential.  What we do in our program is to have you find who you are and integrate our tools into your life and have you use them daily. Unfortunately this is much easier said than done, for it takes time and effort to undo programmed habits and ways of living.

It is time for us to claim our authentic self and live to our fullest potential. The world needs goodness and love now, more than ever before.  To be authentic means to find the key to happiness and success within ones self, not within society.  Society usually means the external system of authority that consciously and unconsciously dictates the direction and behavior in our lives. Do you wonder why it is so important to live a certain way, with a certain car, house, school degree, etc.  It is because society dictates it to be.  We want to free you from that cultural prison and have you think for yourself and create your own thoughts, needs and desires. In other words, becoming authentic.

In our program we guide you through a process of self-discovery.  We guide you to find the work you need to do, say the things your heart was meant to say and live the life your soul craves to live.

When you live an authentic life, you are living the life that resonates within your inner being.  You will not bind yourself with destructive habits, relationships or lifestyles.  You will gain inner strength and let go of manipulation, power plays, cruelty and hatred. You will find that your life is being elevated to a higher spiritual level. You will be thinking of humankind, rather than self.  You won't be afraid of truth, and you will deal with fear.

Teilhard de Chardin said, " We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience”... This truth has been expressed since the beginning of time.  We are now beginning to understand this.  We need to embrace it, live it and share it with others.  If we do this, our world will have less fear and destruction, and more love, happiness and abundance.

When we ask people why they continue to live an unhappy and unfulfilled existence, they often respond that "they don't know why". For example, if they are unhappy with their job, we ask them, "why do you continue to stay and be unfulfillled at your job, day after day?".  Or why do you continue to behave in a way that isn't necessarily healthy, like smoking or drinking too much. What we observe is that they don't know why they do certain things. They just continue to do it out of habit. What we have determined is that their behavior doesn't match with their values, thus they are not living authentically.

In the next few weeks, we will challenge you step outside the box and discover your highest path.  We have you meditate, go into nature, and do some mental exercises.  We give you tools to use, we force you to look at your present life, and face issues you have swept under the rug.  YOU WILL CHANGE!  And you must be ready to do so to effect positive change in your life. We are here to help you, and we want the best for you! That is our goal.

We encourage you to lead yourself into a life of authenticity.  Follow us as we take you through this program of incredible power, and you will find the inner strength you never thought you had before.  The journey is beyond your wildest dreams!  Join us as we take you there!

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