We have you first list
the relationships that you wish to analyze. Then go thru each part and answer the questions for each person you are having a
relationship with. You will begin to see whether or not the relationships you have are fulfilling your needs or not.
PART A - I NEED
PART B - IN REALITY, I'M GETTING
WISDOM
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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PERCEPTION
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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COMMUNICATION
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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HEART
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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POWER
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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PLEASURE
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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SECURITY
Spontaneity
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Spontaneity
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Predictability
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Predictability
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Create a mission statement or set some goals with your significant other, your spouse, your
children and your extended family.
Write a list of all those relationships that are “nutritious” in your life.
Now write a list of those that are not nurturing in your life.
Can you separate yourself from the unhealthy relationships? Why or why not?